My Kids STOLE My Sexiness!!!

Many don't know this about me but I got custody of my 4 kids from my previous marriage 2 years ago. Prior to getting my kids I used to have a healthy sexual appetite. My Ishah wanted for nothing in that department. Now with teh kids here I'm tellin ya, I don't feel sexy, I feel like a grumpy old man. I have little desire for sex. I don't really care about my looks like I used to. In fact, My Ishah and I would be doing good if we have sex once a month. She still desires it but it's me.

I think my kids stole my sexy. HOW DO I GET I BACK?

signed Ding Dong, The Libido's dead.

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Permalink Reply by Techiyah on July 3, 2009 at 8:45pm: Wow! This is interesting and I am a bit scared it may happen to me one day. So I would love to hear the suggestions. I am pregnant, so my desire isn't what it used to be but I just kinda do it anyway (when my ish wants to) and in the process I start to get into it. I think sometimes you have to just do it, or start up the process and then you might get more into it.

But I am curious how things will work out when this baby is born and I also have a two year old to chase after. This is going to be a real juggling act for me to keep everybody happy.

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Permalink Reply by Wondell on July 5, 2009 at 9:29am: Actually now that I think about it my kids are getting better. I was out of their lives for 3 years because their mother keep me blocked after we separated. So I'm still undoing the damage to them that she's done. They are good kids. It's just I'm a strict and hard to please father. I'm an only child and I dont' really like having all these people around me for long periods of time. It's DRAINING!!! So when its time for bed, I just want EVERYBODY up out my face! And let me just bathe in the quietness of the house. doing my own thang.

Like I said they are getting better. they are 13 - 11 - 9 - 7; ▶ Reply to This